We have all heard men talking about blowjob as THE thing they love to get from their partner(s). We’ve heard the good stories as well as the terrible ones and we’ve all once wondered: how can I give the best possible blowjob? What do guys love and don’t like as much when getting their dick sucked? Well today, I’ll give you plenty of tips for you to please a man and have the best time doing it.
Mean it
If you’re doing it because you know your partner likes it but you don’t really enjoy it: you’re not gonna do it right. The number one rule for a perfect blowjob is to be enthusiastic. Commit to it. If you’re not turned on by the idea of giving this head, don’t do it. To really commit, make eye contact with your partner and express how hot you find them. Plus, you’ll love watching them feel pleasure as you go.
Use your hands
Your mouth doesn’t have to do all the work alone. Place one hand around your partner’s shaft to add tightness to the wetness of your mouth, and use your other hand to stimulate erogenous parts of your partner’s body, gently massage their balls or add some anal play. Simultaneously move your hand and mouth up and down. It will make a huge difference and you’ll quickly become the queen/king of blowjobs.
Oh, as this can happen, here’s a specific tip: If their penis is larger than average… keep your mouth on the head and play with your tongue, while you move your hand up and down separately. Use lube, it will feel nicer for them. Oh, and on this note:
Use your tongue
Very important part of a perfect blowjob. And actually, my personal favourite. I’m aware my tongue adds a soft, wet and warm element to the experience, and that’s super enjoyable for them. So I always try to add soft pressure with my mouth and to play with the head of the penis as I move my mouth up and down the shaft. I sometimes stop and lick the shaft as well, all the way down to the testicules. It adds a change of pace and other sensations to the mix. Oh, and don’t forget to lick the frenulum: the super sensitive skin on the underside of the penis head. It’s full of nerve endings, they’ll love it!
Think about what they are seeing!
Every guy I’ve ever spoken with about blowjobs has told me they LOVE watching they partner go down on them. If you go to the side, you’ll make it more visual for them as they’ll be able to see your entire body, while also watching your mouth doing an amazing job. Give them a wink and show you’re loving it – make it all extra kinky. Being on your knees while they’re up against a wall for example will also provide an excellent view on the upper part of your body as well as your mouth. Wanna add all possible angles? Place yourself in front of a mirror. So hot!
Try the famous deep throat
If you can deep throat – you’re a star! It is indeed a tricky one. In case you don’t know what deep throating is – it’s when you put your partner’s penis so far into your mouth that it reaches your throat. You’ve guessed it, the reason why it’s tricky is because you can’t breathe much and you might have a gag reflex. So only do it if you’re actually curious about it and only go as deep as it’s comfortable for you. Take deep breaths through your nose and you should be fine. You can always practice with a dildo beforehand if you’re not sure what your reaction will be in situation.
Think of the end
Think about it: if your plan is to take your partner all the way to an orgasm and if things go well, they’ll probably ejaculate. What then?
Think about what you’re okay with and what you’re not okay with, and let your partner know beforehand. If you don’t want your partner to come inside your mouth, decide on a verbal queue right before they come so you have time to switch to a hand job. If you’re okay with them coming in your mouth, do you already know if you’ll spit or swallow? Important questions to ask yourself before it happens. I personally enjoy swallowing if I’m comfortable enough with my partner.
Bonus tip: Use a sex toy
There are different options here. The sex toy can either be used on you, while you’re sucking on your partner’s penis. It could be a clit stimulator like a Womanizer, for example. You could also enhance your blowjob by using a vibrator on your partner’s other erogenous parts, or a butt plug.
Well friends, now you’ve got the recipe for a perfect blowjob. Go practice 😊